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My butt is aching!
Mar. 19th, 2012 03:11 pm1. Not from what you think (wink). From working with a new workout buddy. We did legs. Presses and luges yesterday.
2. Friday was the usual out with the boys.
3. Saturday was more interesting. Home wise, I took all my dating sites, and changed the photos to more current ones. Been meaning to do that for a long time.
Then I met up with the guy I met on Grindr, to work out, as workout buddys at my gym.
4. It was funny that the beefy manager and the owner of the gym were happy I was working out with someone. They kept looking over, smiling. The owner even came by to give us a tips on the right stance for a routine. This is the good thing of being in a smaller gym. Owners care.
5. As for my buddy; cute, younger (48), and nice lean muscular body (woof).
6. We were working on biceps and triceps. When he was doing his bicep routines, seeing his bicep expand with veins and all was turning me on. Woof!
7. Our workout took us a bit longer than an hour, for we talked, got to know each other a bit more.
8. After we had breakfast, and were on our separate ways. He has been in a down mood. Misses home. He lives in NJ. Is out here for a few months for work. His partner, who he is married to, lost his job, yet found another one, and had to relocate to Boston. They both own the home together in NJ (they pay a pet sitter to sit the pets and keep the house up).
9. So he misses his partner, home, and pets. He will be home later on this week for a weeks visit
10. So he says Open Relationship, on his profile. I did, as he did, make some verbal "test" advances and got some mixed signals from him. Then Saturday night, he messages me, that he got a hair cut; sends me a photo, of him shirtless with a haircut. Then an hour later a photo of him, naked, with his iPad hiding the crotch, saying "good night". Oy
11. Then on Sunday, we went to my old gym (his gym), Bally's for our leg workouts (now I know why I left Bally's). Still mixed signals. He says he doesn't know what to think of me ("then quit sending me those pictures of yourself", I think to myself).
12. He did say while on the leg press machine, he had a fight with his mom, who's a bitch. And that he really misses his partner, and to forgive him for feeling down.
13. So anyway we had a really good workout, both Saturday, and Sunday. I think, which is a good thing, that workout buddys is the the thing to be, without any of the "other' stuff involved.
14. My arms are really sore from Saturday's workout, which I have not had in awhile. So that's good too!
15. Aside from the gym stuff, I did end up in the Castro on Sunday, mid afternoon to meet Mark, Ho, Tom and Lee (Lee says I'm a magnet for married men. LOL).
16. That comment sort of got me down. Then I think to myself; all the men I like on dating sites , say they are partnered, and in Open Relationships. So that's a dead end for me of course. Seems most men on these sites are in open relationships. I guess Married monogamous relationships are not in vogue today.
17. Oh well guess I'll meet them anyway, and become "the homewrecker", LOL
2. Friday was the usual out with the boys.
3. Saturday was more interesting. Home wise, I took all my dating sites, and changed the photos to more current ones. Been meaning to do that for a long time.
Then I met up with the guy I met on Grindr, to work out, as workout buddys at my gym.
4. It was funny that the beefy manager and the owner of the gym were happy I was working out with someone. They kept looking over, smiling. The owner even came by to give us a tips on the right stance for a routine. This is the good thing of being in a smaller gym. Owners care.
5. As for my buddy; cute, younger (48), and nice lean muscular body (woof).
6. We were working on biceps and triceps. When he was doing his bicep routines, seeing his bicep expand with veins and all was turning me on. Woof!
7. Our workout took us a bit longer than an hour, for we talked, got to know each other a bit more.
8. After we had breakfast, and were on our separate ways. He has been in a down mood. Misses home. He lives in NJ. Is out here for a few months for work. His partner, who he is married to, lost his job, yet found another one, and had to relocate to Boston. They both own the home together in NJ (they pay a pet sitter to sit the pets and keep the house up).
9. So he misses his partner, home, and pets. He will be home later on this week for a weeks visit
10. So he says Open Relationship, on his profile. I did, as he did, make some verbal "test" advances and got some mixed signals from him. Then Saturday night, he messages me, that he got a hair cut; sends me a photo, of him shirtless with a haircut. Then an hour later a photo of him, naked, with his iPad hiding the crotch, saying "good night". Oy
11. Then on Sunday, we went to my old gym (his gym), Bally's for our leg workouts (now I know why I left Bally's). Still mixed signals. He says he doesn't know what to think of me ("then quit sending me those pictures of yourself", I think to myself).
12. He did say while on the leg press machine, he had a fight with his mom, who's a bitch. And that he really misses his partner, and to forgive him for feeling down.
13. So anyway we had a really good workout, both Saturday, and Sunday. I think, which is a good thing, that workout buddys is the the thing to be, without any of the "other' stuff involved.
14. My arms are really sore from Saturday's workout, which I have not had in awhile. So that's good too!
15. Aside from the gym stuff, I did end up in the Castro on Sunday, mid afternoon to meet Mark, Ho, Tom and Lee (Lee says I'm a magnet for married men. LOL).
16. That comment sort of got me down. Then I think to myself; all the men I like on dating sites , say they are partnered, and in Open Relationships. So that's a dead end for me of course. Seems most men on these sites are in open relationships. I guess Married monogamous relationships are not in vogue today.
17. Oh well guess I'll meet them anyway, and become "the homewrecker", LOL
