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[cellboy]

Since I'm posting this on some other communities, thought I would post here. BUT! Here is an off the wall last minute thought.
Would you feel comfortable, or at ease having this man as your boyfriend? Or would you feel a bit intimidated? Some people may feel insecure or jealous, with everyone looking at him all the time, wanting him. And do you think he would be monogamous material? Do you think you could trust someone like him to be monogamous if that is what you expected? Have you dated this type of look? How was it? If he were a porn star would you still date him? Ok. Too many questions. But woof anyway!

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You're overthinking!!!!

[lethrdadchicago.livejournal.com]

I know that I'm probably totally avoiding the issues that you are bringing up, but here's my answer: you get into bed with him, screw his brains out, and ask questions later. Then you keep his picture in his wallet to show everybody. Dating and monogamy? Depends on him, not you. But if the opportunity presents itself, you get all over him like ketchup on curly fries. Bob

Re: You're overthinking!!!!

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

HaHaaaaHaaa. Exactly! That's what I would do when I was younger. Young... dumb, and full of cum. Now I'm, old, smart, ... and still full of cum. So... lets just say I would still get all over him like ketchup and fries :-)

OK, now my real answer

[lethrdadchicago.livejournal.com]

OK, now that I gave the answer that my "head down" there told me to say, I dated a really handsome guy for two years, in fact he was my first love. Not quite as cut as the guy above, but he was very, very goodlooking. He was an actor, very striking, turned heads, etc. Was I aware of his gorgeousness? Sure I was. Did I worry? A little, but I knew he loved me and we were committed to each other. Did he cheat on me? I don't think so, although I also knew that he cheated on his ex- and he beat himself up something awful about it. He truly felt horrible about it to the extent that the odds were very much against his doing it again. What was worse was his getting older, how vain he was, as he approached 40 and was starting to lose his looks how much he started to panic. How much, in short, despite his good looks, he felt horrible about himself inside. We split over issues having nothing to do with surface matters, but because in the end he was not secure enough to handle responsibility -- sharing raising my kids with me, settling down in the suburbs, not partying with "the boys" in the "Gay Village" in Chicago -- things he needed to affirm himself as he aged. So it comes down to who that hot man is inside. Bob

Re: OK, now my real answer

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

Nice answer. That reminded me I did know someone like that. Always worried about looks, aging etc.... too much maintenance.