"He lives with his mother" - Bearracuda

It was a nice night at Bearracuda. Not too crowded. I really enjoyed arthole's DeeJaying (and woof!). The other guest DJ was so so (oops!inner voice speaking)
1. The typical bear crowd. One guy, Mr Muscle, cute with his Daddy looking BF. Surprisingly, the Daddy, I was told is, is the bottom (now that is hot!)
2. So I met this other couple, whose names shall be withheld (you may know them). They had just met, and were quite smitten with each other. One, a Daddy bear type, very cute, shy and quiet. The other bear Latin, nice looking and very chatty. Anyway we talked for over an hour. I was liking the Latin man, not sexually (he was not quite my type of bear), but his personality was very cute.
3. So as time went on, my friends pop in, and the "bears" are off in the corner making nookie :)
4. So as the Tranny Shack show started, I am standing near the stage. The nice Latin bear comes up to me. I ask where his friend is. He tells me that his friend could not go home with him because he had to be home by 1 am, for his mother was waiting, and she gets worried. So the Latin guy asked him if they could go to a hotel before then, and the guy said no.
5. This guy told him that it is hard for him to date, for he lives with mom (she is not ill).
6. OY! This guy is 45 yrs old, has a job and lives with his mother. To each his own.
7. I know 2 other people that do that. One guy says his mother lives with him. Well, they "share" their millions together (I call him Harold (Harold and Maude (lol). The other, straight, with girlfriend, and in his mid 50's. Their mother's health is fine. They are not doing any care giving stuff.
8. I don't really see anything wrong with that if one is out of work; maybe some are moving "back home" for survival.Or in the care giving mode. But if your established with job and all, isn't healthier to live on your own? Even my mother when she was not well, insisted that we have our own lives. Live close, but not together.
9. So I felt bad for my Latin friend. He then, is standing behind me, watching the show, and starts fondling me, my arms, butt..... and asks if I mind. I said no, but that I am going to go shortly (which was my original plan). I told him that I don't want to lead him on, etc. He then says to me that it's been 7 months since he has slept with a man. And if I would be interested, or if I wanted to go downstairs and he would give me a BJ
10. OY! Now what do I do. He was nice, but he was not my type. And I really did want to go home somewhat early. And lower my standards was not my plan. They are low enough as it is! ;)
11. So I told him I was flattered, but I don't think so. He did back off for a bit, then he went to get a drink. He finally ran into someone, and they were "at it" within moments.
12. Yrs ago (well maybe not "years" ago) I would of done something (isn't that what they a "Pity F****"?). He just was not my type.......
13. I felt bad for him, but he met someone else. Hope he got laid.

days gone by

after listening to djmattconsola's "Modo Homo Disco (for the umteenth time), I just got a pit in my stomach. I really miss Trocadero Transfer (the Troc), the I-Beam, and to some extent Mezzanine (messy queen). Those were fun times. I really need to find a friend, BF, someone to hang with that likes to dance. And often. I miss it a lot. I will need a fix so bad so soon, that I may succumb and go to Badlands dancing by myself :( eep!
(when I lived in Orange County, in college, our gang lived at the Disco's in Newport Beach, on weekends. You know, those John Travolta days (lol)