the other thing I did on Sunday
Jan. 19th, 2009 01:09 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
cellboy1. It would of been my Mom's 87th birthday yesterday, on Sunday. She died in June of 08.
2. So after the gym, I picked up some flowers, and drove them to Palo Alto, to the cemetery
3. Placed them, on her and my Dad's niche, said my few words of birthday thoughts and such.
4. I also placed some flowers, not too far away, on my mom's best friend's husband's niche.
5. I then took the other flowers, to the other side of the cemetery and placed them, on my late partner's grave. And said my brief words and thoughts.
6. Then I thought, what hurts is not that my mom,dad, and partner are gone, although I miss them very much. What hurts even more, was seeing the pain, and anguish, and suffering they went though on their way out.
7. It wasn't a sad moment. Just a good positive visit. I'm glad I went.
2. So after the gym, I picked up some flowers, and drove them to Palo Alto, to the cemetery
3. Placed them, on her and my Dad's niche, said my few words of birthday thoughts and such.
4. I also placed some flowers, not too far away, on my mom's best friend's husband's niche.
5. I then took the other flowers, to the other side of the cemetery and placed them, on my late partner's grave. And said my brief words and thoughts.
6. Then I thought, what hurts is not that my mom,dad, and partner are gone, although I miss them very much. What hurts even more, was seeing the pain, and anguish, and suffering they went though on their way out.
7. It wasn't a sad moment. Just a good positive visit. I'm glad I went.
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Date: 2009-01-20 03:46 am (UTC)*Bonecracking hug*
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Date: 2009-01-20 04:23 am (UTC)