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[cellboy]

"prefer bb with pos men but can play safe if asked nicely."

I just don't get it. With all that we have been through the last 25 yrs.... I just don't get it.

This is not a judgment. Just an observation.

Comments

[atomicdave.livejournal.com]

Apparently some guys want to get infected so they don't have to worry about possibly getting infected any more? I don't get the bugchasing thing either. I know HIV is not the death sentence it used to be, but it's not like it's the bees knees either.

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

What scares me is getting infected with a different strain, or maybe cause the existing stain they currently have convert to something uncontrollable. It's not a death sentence like it used to be, but for some, sooner or later the meds may give up working :(

[danielefton.livejournal.com]

so the thing is, if you are already infected, I see this as a giving up and just enjoying the sex as it was meant to be (sortof?). Because honestly bb is hot and some of the best sex I've had. (though this is possibly due to the fact that these guys were special and waited for it)

But, I also understand your point about the possible mutation and new variant of the virus. We see it happen everyday with the common cold and flu, why not something deadlier? If you've got it under control especially, why fuck it up.

If you have a dedicated partner, and you are both positive, and you both have it under control, and you both understand what's going on, sure fuck away.

But if you are positive and single, I can see both rationals, depending on your mood, and will to live, or desire to enjoy what's left of your life, even though most people should live this way in aspects other than sex.

But then with what I've been through, I'm not likely to to be unbiased.

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

I tend to agree. Both rationals do seem confusing at times, and I'm sure controversial for so many.