rethinking hookups?

[cellboy]

OK. So lately I have been on a roll with these so called dating sites (don't know why I joined the gym. The hits are pre gym pics of a 1-2 yrs ago (LOL).
But what sort of irks me, is that no one wants to do the sleep over thing. Just a quick romp and run. I can get that at a bookstore or back alley (not really. I'm beyond that). I seem to get luckier at the bars. Those men generally will want to spend the night with you. Which I think is more substantial. I myself feel more complete, and less empty. And needless to say, a post sex cuddle, and even through the night is nice. To me it feels like a more complete picture. Like dotting the i's and crossing the t's. Don't want to marry the guy. Just a nice cuddle. Is anything abnormal about wanting that? And the ones I really want to cuddle with, live thousands of miles away (Murphy's Sex Law). But in the meantime, I guess I will continue to do the hook up thing if opportunities arise. A numbers game you know. ;)

Comments

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

That is true. Most times I can't sleep well the first time. But sometimes the sacrifice is worth it. And its only one night. But if more than one night, it certainly is an adjustment for both. Yes. I think the site was DH? :)

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[danielefton.livejournal.com]

probably, though it could have been 411 or www. it was somewhere you had all kinds of links up at.

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

Not 411. I tried to join 4 times, and for some reason not accepted (not bearish enough (lol). Hear the owner does that. So maybe DH :)

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[hugthecub.livejournal.com]

really? i got in the second time i tried - but only as a cub. ;-)

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

I might try one more time. But I'm on too many sites as it is ;)