rethinking hookups?

[cellboy]

OK. So lately I have been on a roll with these so called dating sites (don't know why I joined the gym. The hits are pre gym pics of a 1-2 yrs ago (LOL).
But what sort of irks me, is that no one wants to do the sleep over thing. Just a quick romp and run. I can get that at a bookstore or back alley (not really. I'm beyond that). I seem to get luckier at the bars. Those men generally will want to spend the night with you. Which I think is more substantial. I myself feel more complete, and less empty. And needless to say, a post sex cuddle, and even through the night is nice. To me it feels like a more complete picture. Like dotting the i's and crossing the t's. Don't want to marry the guy. Just a nice cuddle. Is anything abnormal about wanting that? And the ones I really want to cuddle with, live thousands of miles away (Murphy's Sex Law). But in the meantime, I guess I will continue to do the hook up thing if opportunities arise. A numbers game you know. ;)

Comments

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[danielefton.livejournal.com]

probably, though it could have been 411 or www. it was somewhere you had all kinds of links up at.

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

Not 411. I tried to join 4 times, and for some reason not accepted (not bearish enough (lol). Hear the owner does that. So maybe DH :)

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[hugthecub.livejournal.com]

really? i got in the second time i tried - but only as a cub. ;-)

Re: Do you ask them to stay?

[cellboy.livejournal.com]

I might try one more time. But I'm on too many sites as it is ;)