Does bisexuality
Sep. 20th, 2007 08:11 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
cellboyreally exist?
I have met several men, who claim to be bisexual. Some, are a bit confused. Or they are somewhat like a straight man. When "Playing" they will not kiss, caress, reciprocate. Basically that they only want to be "serviced". So are they just saying they are bi for the easy, or easier sex? Some of my friends say they don't exist. Or they can't admit totally to their gayness. So they opt to label themselvs as Bi. I know they do exist. The sexuality scale gradient is grey, not black and white. Or maybe the ones I have met are bogus. In any case, my experience with this years ago, has opted me to stay away from them.
I have met several men, who claim to be bisexual. Some, are a bit confused. Or they are somewhat like a straight man. When "Playing" they will not kiss, caress, reciprocate. Basically that they only want to be "serviced". So are they just saying they are bi for the easy, or easier sex? Some of my friends say they don't exist. Or they can't admit totally to their gayness. So they opt to label themselvs as Bi. I know they do exist. The sexuality scale gradient is grey, not black and white. Or maybe the ones I have met are bogus. In any case, my experience with this years ago, has opted me to stay away from them.
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Date: 2007-09-21 09:13 pm (UTC)"That's an old fallacy about bisexuals... monogamy can't work with them. It really doesn't make any sense. OK, so they're attracted to both men and women... so what? If you're not bisexual, you may also be attracted to many people who are not your spouse; they just all happen to be the same sex, that's all. If you can maintain a monogamous relationship, a bisexual man should be able to as well. It's no better, and no worse."
Great explanation...I couldn't have said it better myself.