What are you doing up so late? It's it your bed time. :o)
And I'll always be gentle with ya. :o)
I could very well be wrong so remember that this is just my own opinion and if I didn't care, I would share it.
I'm just not so sure that you are going to find a quality guy on some of the sites that you use. Now granted, I do agree that some good relationships have developed as a result of a few choice dating sites, but by and large, most of the sites out there are geared towards sex. If it's just sex you are looking for, then that's your choice and the sites are probably right for you. But if you are looking for a quality guy to have a serious, maybe lifelong relationship with, which is what it sounds like you really want, then I don't know that you are going to find it on those sites.
I've also noticed that you seem preoccupied with sex, alot. I do understand. Who doesn't like it? But if you go back over your posts, a lot of them have to do with the topic and I think to some people, it's a turn off. Of course, the other folks will like it. :o) No matter how much sex you have, it won't replace love. And while it makes you feel good about yourself for a minute (because it means someone else is attracted to you enough to want to sleep with you), it won't help build your self-esteem like finding a great relationship can. Trust me on this, I know what I am talking about because I have been there.
If you want to find a decent quality guy, he is gonna want to know about you. The real you. What you think about things, how you feel about things, things that interest you outside of the bedroom, things you are passionate about in life. In short, he's gonna be attracted to your heart and mind. He may be attracted to you physically, as he should be, but the things that are going to matter, to form a lasting healthy relationship, are going to be those things that bond two people together for life.
I think that there is probably a wonderful heart and mind in you. I'm willing to place a bet that more people out there would like to see that side of you. It can make a man extremely attractive.
You can of course delete this if you want to and you won't hurt my feelings.
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Date: 2007-09-13 07:12 am (UTC)And I'll always be gentle with ya. :o)
I could very well be wrong so remember that this is just my own opinion and if I didn't care, I would share it.
I'm just not so sure that you are going to find a quality guy on some of the sites that you use. Now granted, I do agree that some good relationships have developed as a result of a few choice dating sites, but by and large, most of the sites out there are geared towards sex. If it's just sex you are looking for, then that's your choice and the sites are probably right for you. But if you are looking for a quality guy to have a serious, maybe lifelong relationship with, which is what it sounds like you really want, then I don't know that you are going to find it on those sites.
I've also noticed that you seem preoccupied with sex, alot. I do understand. Who doesn't like it? But if you go back over your posts, a lot of them have to do with the topic and I think to some people, it's a turn off. Of course, the other folks will like it. :o) No matter how much sex you have, it won't replace love. And while it makes you feel good about yourself for a minute (because it means someone else is attracted to you enough to want to sleep with you), it won't help build your self-esteem like finding a great relationship can. Trust me on this, I know what I am talking about because I have been there.
If you want to find a decent quality guy, he is gonna want to know about you. The real you. What you think about things, how you feel about things, things that interest you outside of the bedroom, things you are passionate about in life. In short, he's gonna be attracted to your heart and mind. He may be attracted to you physically, as he should be, but the things that are going to matter, to form a lasting healthy relationship, are going to be those things that bond two people together for life.
I think that there is probably a wonderful heart and mind in you. I'm willing to place a bet that more people out there would like to see that side of you. It can make a man extremely attractive.
You can of course delete this if you want to and you won't hurt my feelings.
Still friends? :o)